When dating, how long do you wait for the ring?

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A nice and beautiful scene, Green hills and valleys and your loved one lying on your chest. Have lots of sex. Put together a gift basket of yummy treats—like dark chocolate, coffee or fresh fruit—and hide the ring among the presents in its box, so it doesn't get lost in the goodies.

Take her to a nearby park or a place you usually meet up and get down on your knees and reveal your special tee to her. Was it too small, too chunky, or too shiny, or was it just right? Corny but very romantic.

When dating, how long do you wait for the ring?

Now before this thread begins, I want to make the disclaimer that I only half-heartedly want a real answer to my dilema. The truth is the when I was pondering this issue, I just thought that hearing the goofy and off-beat responses of Arsers would be hilarious. And somebody with class I. Here is my dilema. I am dating a significant other. We've been dating for a few months and we both have a realization that there is a strong chance that we might end up getting married, but neither of us feel like RIGHT NOW is the time to get engaged. Truth be told, I think she is ready now, but I'm not. I'm not opposed to eventually marrying her, but I think that the correct time hasn't developed yet. I now open this thread to the wisdom of the Arsers. Well, I believe my brother said it best when he said... Also if you don't think you're ready for it you probably aren't. I am of course, not at all quallified to give any advice on this matter. When you realise that you are in fact rather ugly, and getting uglier every day. When you're comfortable enough with the relationship to not only fart in her presence but do so without any pull my finger jokes. When she tells you she's late. In short - during the half time break of the football match you're watching on TV. Until then you can still kid yourself that you're a wild young stud-muffin. I'll offer some 'serious' advice read: boring, but informative - I popped the question on Christmas Eve of '98 and get married in 2 months long engagement - we were waiting till we both graduated. We had been together for 3+ years before I proposed. Here's my experience: I was 'in love' more than a crush within the 1st month of going out. After a couple of months, I was already hoping she would be the one I would marry. As time went by, the more marriage seemed a real possibility. I had always wanted to propose on Christmas and really wanted to Christmas of '96. But, I put it off till next year, then waited yet another. Basically, my advice is possibly give it another year just to make absolutely year. Assuming things are still good, then pursue it further. A way you can tell when marriage is right - when you honestly, without a doubt, can't see yourself without her in your life; you are absolutely certain you want HER to be The One; and, of course, are absolutely fine with the idea of not going out with another woman for the rest of your life. Good luck in your relationship. The proper time to propose is about 40 years into a relationship. I mean, you want to be sure that she is the one. Pretty much anyone who was married got divorced. All the relationships started in college, and now, when they are hitting their 30s, they realized that there is this whole world out there and they are missing out. I honestly do not think that 3 months is enough to really figure out if that is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. I agree with Bitwiz. My parents met and married in college. After 20 years of marriage, all but eight or so filled with constant fighting, they divorced. Give it time dude, do lots of things, as much as you can and in as many situations as you can. Find out if you can live with her when you're both stressed out and grouchy, dead tired, etc. Good luck, hope it goes well. In the dorms here, it is any time when my friend Minister Doug is in the room. Sure to scare everyone but the most despareate away. Even worse and where all 5 of my marriage proposals have come from Any time you find a mildly interesting female online. And offer her plane tickets to meet you. If she turns you down, Call her a man and start spreading rumors of such online. The important factor is, at least to you, being saved, that the moment you decide to pop the question you are making a covenant with God, as you see Him. You are swearing an oath to your Lord that you will accept this woman in your life, permanently. You will, for the rest of your days, always assume that she is acting in your best interest, regardless of what you believe. You will trust her implicitly in the face of seemingly contradictory evidence. Moreover, and most difficult, you will allow and demand that she trust you as completely, and you can only do that if you are being completely trustworthy. This is the most far-reaching decision you will ever make. Only those with a realistic view of just how big the thing is, ever make it work. This is your life, all the rest of your days. When you are comfortable with the thought of standing before God to declare your commitment to her, when the commitment already exists in all but name only, then you should ask her. I hope I've scared you. This is serious business. Okay, I'm a little on the young side to be talking about this I turned 21 today , but I can see where you're coming from, svdsinner. My relationship with my girlfriend has been completely and utterly flawless from the beginning. Like Rold Gold, we were honestly in love with each other within a month or so. A few more months and I could see myself being with her for a long time to come. While I certainly know for a fact that neither of us are ready for marriage now, I know almost as certainly that she is the One. The other day my hairdresser—who must've thought I was older—was asking whether I was married. I said no, and then he asked if I was seeing anyone. Then he asked if I was going to marry her. Surprised by being asked this so bluntly, I thought about it for a minute before I said anything. Realistically speaking, 7 months into a relationship is waaay too soon to tell, and I'm the first to admit that. At the same time, though, I really can't see myself with anyone else. Being posed such a question really made me think, though what is it with barbers anyway? It was filled with uncertainty. Why it lasted 3 years I don't know. This one is so much more stable, reliable, and easy. I know that that's not a very descriptive or objective explanation, but I honestly believe that you'll simply know one day when the time is right. Heck, if you wait long enough, she'll get impatient and may tip you off and you won't have to worry about anything anyway. After about a month of that I told her I knew what I wanted and it was her, although I didn't propose for another 6 months. I've seen happy marriages between people who knew each other 3 months before tying the knot, so I believe there is an attitude you bring to marriage that determines the success. In my case, I needed some extra time to develop that attitude. Basically an awesome relationship from the very start and nothing 'rocky'. We've had our small fights, but nothing ever big. I'm also about your age too - 22. I still don't feel comfortable doing that in front of her. ANyway, waiting at least a year is definitely a good thing. Marriages can turn out just fine for some who've been together for a short while, and that's great. But most people need some time to make absolutely sure. You have nothing to lose by waiting this amount of time. If you guys love each other and it works out like it was meant to be, you'll still be together after that year or so. Rold Gold, it's good to hear about other supa-smooth relationships. I think our biggest bump was when I said something stupid about getting the salt shaker or something. That tootin' stage is an important one, ya know! But I know I am going to. My best advise is to wait a while until you are ABSOLUTELY sure. But if you think you will marry her, don't do anything stupid to screw it up. Even if that stupid thing was her fault, it will be your fault because, as men, we are always wrong so always apoligize. Even if you don't know what you're apoligizing for, apoligize for being a man, because that inherently makes you wrong. Man, this thread is making me depressed. One of the most important things in my life is to get married. But I am not helping my situation cause I am not in a relationship, and I am not looking either!!! About this marriage thing. I think that most of the stuff said above is accurate. I have a friend who got engaged after only seeing their SO for about a year. He proposed to her after she dumpt him. I don't blame her, he treats her like shit... Ryan I don't know... I know I want to marry my girlfriend. I have almost asked her to marry me a few times which was a total surprise to me the first time... Not just thinking asking, but it has almost popped out my mouth a few times totally unprovoked. I love her lots and I so totally couldn't think of anyone else in my life. I smile just thinking of her. © 2018 Condé Nast. 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When you realise that you are in fact rather ugly, and getting uglier every day. It's also a sign of politeness, and what family can resist that. Avoid diverting her by going on about not being the marriageable type, or having to run off too. Couples who fell fast in love were engaged after nine months, and married after 18 months. You've probably already been thinking this over for some time. That is clearly up to you. Regardless of the root of the issue, a relationship becomes tough when your friends don't want anything to do with your significant other. Have a choir, brass band or drum line show up for a surprise performance of your fiance-to-be's favorite love song in best time to propose park or public location for your proposal. Con: Daytime will bring more crowds to any medico venue like the beach or museum. If you've just made a big professional advance like a raise best time to propose a promotionit may be the perfect time to take the next big step in your personal life too. It's not a pleasant thing. Put together a gift glad of yummy treats—like dark chocolate, coffee or fresh fruit—and hide the ring among the presents in its box, so it doesn't get lost in the goodies.